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You’re Not Broken—Your Subconscious Is Just Doing Its Job

Most of us live with a quiet hum of self-doubt. It’s so familiar, so woven into our daily inner talk, that we barely notice it. It might sound like:


“I’m not doing enough.”“I should be more confident by now.”“Other people have it figured out—I’m behind.”


And yet, what if that wasn’t your truth at all?


What if those beliefs were just programs—installed in your subconscious before you even had the words to question them?



Image: Flowers growing through a crack in a road.


This is the question I often ask my clients at the start of our work together:


"If a miracle happened overnight... what would you believe about yourself when you woke up?"


Take a moment with it. Not what you’d do. Not what you’d achieve. But what you’d believe.

Would you believe you are enough, just as you are? That you're safe to rest? That you're worthy of love and success without having to earn it?


These miracle beliefs are the compass points of our healing journey. They reveal the subconscious stories keeping us stuck—and the ones we’re ready to grow into.


Rewriting the Script


In my work, I support people who are ready to change the inner story that’s been running their lives. And I do mean inner—because surface-level mindset work can only go so far.

We work directly with the subconscious mind—the source of 95% of our thoughts, reactions, and behaviours. It’s the part of us that doesn’t respond to logic or willpower. But it does respond to safety, clarity, and belief change done in a state of deep coherence.

This is not about endlessly talking through your past. It’s about transforming the beliefs that got created in response to it.


A Client Example


One client came to me struggling with constant self-doubt. No matter how many wins she had in her career or personal life, there was a voice underneath whispering, “You’re not doing enough.”


We identified that the root belief—shaped in childhood—was: “I must constantly prove my worth to be loved.” In one session, we rewired that belief and replaced it with: “I am already worthy. I do not have to earn love.”


A week later, she told me something had shifted. She didn’t feel the same drive to over-perform. She could rest without guilt. She felt... calm. And that calm changed everything.


The Power of Belief


Your beliefs are like filters through which you experience the world. When you shift them at the source—your subconscious—everything downstream begins to change. Your thoughts. Your choices. Your emotional safety. Your relationships.


The miracle isn’t magic. It’s rewiring.


Try This


Ask yourself today: If a miracle happened overnight, what would I believe about myself when I woke up?


Write it down. Sit with it. Let it inform what you’re ready to shift.


And if you want help turning that belief into your new reality, this is exactly the kind of work I offer in 1:1 sessions.


DM me or reach out via my website if you’d like to explore this work together.


With care,


Kit

 
 
 

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