Why It Matters Who You Practice Mindfulness With
- Kit Turner
- Apr 28
- 3 min read
Mindfulness is often described as a simple practice:
Pay attention to the present moment, without judgment.
But when we bring real emotional experiences — grief, burnout, anxiety, trauma — into mindfulness practice, it becomes much more than simply “being present.”
It becomes emotional work.
And emotional work needs to be held carefully.
This is why it matters who you practice with.

Mindfulness Can Open Deep Layers
Mindfulness isn’t just about calming down or clearing your mind.
It invites you to notice what’s already there: emotions, thoughts, physical sensations.
Sometimes, especially for those carrying unresolved grief, trauma, or chronic stress, what arises can feel intense, confusing, or overwhelming.
Without proper support, mindfulness can stir up feelings that practitioners aren’t always prepared to navigate on their own.
The Importance of Safe, Skilled Guidance
Not every mindfulness teacher is trained to hold emotional depth safely.
Short online certifications and mass-market courses often focus only on technique — without understanding how mindfulness interacts with mental health, trauma histories, or complex grief.
As a practitioner trained in Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), trauma-informed emotional healing, and subconscious work (QEC), I understand that mindfulness isn’t just a tool — it’s a doorway.
When we step through it, it’s essential to have someone alongside you who can:
Recognise emotional activation and help regulate it
Understand nervous system responses (like freeze, flight, fawn)
Hold space without judgment, analysis, or pressure
Offer grounding techniques if mindfulness brings discomfort
Know when deeper healing support might be needed
Mindfulness is powerful.
With the right guidance, it can become a path to clarity, emotional resilience, and creative reconnection.
Without it, it can unintentionally create confusion, distress, or retraumatization.
What to Look for in a Mindfulness Practitioner
If you’re considering working with someone, here are a few important questions to ask:
Are they trained in trauma-sensitive mindfulness or emotional healing approaches?
Do they have real-world experience supporting emotional and mental health?
Do they emphasise safety, pacing, and consent in their work?
Are they aware of the ways mindfulness can surface difficult emotions — and know how to respond?
These questions aren’t about fear — they’re about empowerment.
You deserve to be supported in a way that respects both your strength and your sensitivity.
How I Hold Mindfulness Practice at Kit Turner Studio
At Kit Turner Studio, mindfulness is not treated as a quick fix or performance.
It’s woven into a wider space of emotional healing, grief support, somatic grounding, and creative reconnection.
Every session — whether mindfulness-based or deeper emotional work — is paced according to you.
My approach is gentle, trauma-informed, and rooted in more than a decade of professional experience.
I’m committed to offering spaces where you can reconnect to yourself safely, without judgment or pressure.
Mindfulness, practiced safely, is not about becoming someone new.
It’s about remembering who you already are — and learning to meet yourself with kindness, even in difficult moments.
Ready to Practice Mindfulness Safely and Sustainably?
If you’re feeling drawn to reconnect with yourself — softly, carefully, and creatively — I’d love to support you.
You can explore [1:1 sessions here] or [book a free discovery call].
You can also start by downloading my free meditation [here].
You don’t have to navigate this alone.
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